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  1. What's one belief you held strongly that you've completely abandoned?
  2. If you could instantly master a useless skill, what would it be?
  3. What's the smallest thing that can completely change your mood?
  4. Describe a memory that feels more like a dream than reality.
  5. What's a question you ask everyone you date but never get a good answer to?
  6. If your life were a genre, what would it be and why?
  7. What's a risk you took that looked foolish but paid off?
  8. What's one thing you envy about animals?
  9. What's the most unexpected compliment you've ever received?
  10. If you could erase one societal norm, what would it be?