Write for Us

We accept guest posts from dating coaches, relationship writers, and lifestyle bloggers who want to share valuable advice with our audience. If you have expertise in dating, relationships, or social skills, firstdatequestions.io is the right place to publish your work and reach thousands of readers who are actively looking for dating guidance.

Why Write for firstdatequestions.io?

Our site attracts thousands of monthly visitors who are specifically interested in dating advice, conversation tips, and relationship insights. When you publish with us, your work reaches a highly engaged, niche audience that values practical, actionable content.

  • Targeted audience — Readers actively preparing for dates, not casual browsers
  • Niche authority — We rank for hundreds of first date and dating conversation keywords
  • Quality backlink — You receive a do-follow link from a topically relevant, growing site
  • Social promotion — We promote every published article across our social channels
  • Author bio — Full bio with photo and link to your site or social profile
  • Long-term exposure — Articles stay published permanently and continue generating traffic

What We’re Looking For

  • Original, well-written content (1,500–3,000 words)
  • Actionable dating advice, conversation tips, or relationship insights
  • First-person experience or research-backed perspectives
  • Content that hasn’t been published elsewhere

Topic Ideas We Love

Here are specific topics our readers consistently engage with. Feel free to pitch your own angle on any of these or propose something new:

  • First date tips, strategies, and personal stories
  • Conversation skills and social confidence building
  • Online dating advice — Hinge, Bumble, Tinder strategies that actually work
  • Relationship psychology and communication patterns
  • Date planning guides — best first date spots, creative date ideas by city
  • Body language and non-verbal communication on dates
  • Overcoming dating anxiety and building confidence
  • How to text after a first date — timing, tone, and what to say
  • Cultural differences in dating — what works in different countries
  • Second date planning — how to build on a great first impression
  • Dating after divorce, breakups, or long breaks from the scene
  • How to be a better listener on dates

What Makes a Great Pitch

The best pitches we receive share a few things in common:

  1. A clear angle — Not just “first date tips” but “how introverts can thrive on first dates”
  2. A reason to trust you — Personal experience, professional credentials, or solid research
  3. An outline — Show us the structure so we can see where the article is heading
  4. Awareness of our content — Reference existing articles on our site and explain how yours adds value

Guidelines

  1. Word count: 1,500–3,000 words minimum
  2. Originality: 100% original content — no republished or spun articles
  3. Quality: Well-structured with headings, short paragraphs, and actionable advice
  4. Links: You may include 1–2 relevant, non-promotional links within the body. No links to gambling, adult, pharmaceutical, or loan sites
  5. Author bio: Include a short bio (2–3 sentences) with one link to your site or social profile
  6. Images: Include at least one royalty-free image if relevant
  7. Formatting: Use H2 and H3 headings, bullet points, and numbered lists

What We Don’t Accept

  • Promotional or advertorial content
  • AI-generated articles without substantial human editing
  • Content that promotes manipulation or deception in dating
  • Articles shorter than 1,500 words
  • Previously published content (even on your own site)

How to Submit

  1. Send your pitch or completed article to guest@firstdatequestions.io
  2. Include “Guest Post Submission” in the subject line
  3. Attach the article as a Google Doc or Word file
  4. Include your author bio and headshot
  5. We’ll review within 5–7 business days and get back to you

What You Get

  • Exposure to thousands of monthly readers interested in dating advice
  • A do-follow link from a topically relevant, growing site
  • Social media promotion of your published article
  • Author bio with a link to your site or profile

Frequently Asked Questions

Do you pay for guest posts?

We don’t currently pay for contributions, but you receive a quality backlink, author bio, and exposure to our audience.

How long until my post is published?

Typically 1–2 weeks after acceptance, depending on our editorial calendar.

Can I include affiliate links?

No. All links must be editorial and relevant to the content.

Can I pitch multiple articles?

Yes. If your first article is accepted and performs well, we welcome ongoing contributions. Many of our best writers started with a single pitch and now contribute regularly.

Do you accept infographics or videos?

We prefer written content as the primary format, but we’re open to articles that include original infographics, charts, or embedded videos as supplementary material. The written content must still meet our 1,500-word minimum.

Ready to contribute? Email us at guest@firstdatequestions.io with your pitch. We look forward to hearing from you.